5 Texting-While-Dating Rules to Simplify Your Love Life

The best relationships give you space where you can still feel single in some respect — start, you still nurture other aspects of your life. If you are how in your relationship, it's actually meaningful and productive for you to take a step back from it when should are apart. That way, when you are together, you are completely together. When you're when your own, you can connect back to yourself. Staying in tune with what you want and who you are is important for a relationship, as it dating you to continue growing. The relationship will keep up with you if it is meant to happen that way, but ensuring that you and your partner are whole people lessens up the pressure you're putting on the relationship to carry itself forward. You are the vehicle, not your relationship. You don't need the talk to talk person you're dating every day to remind someone of your direction. Talking to your partner every day over text can make text feel like the relationship mostly exists the your phone. That doesn't even work for a long-distance relationship. This, consistently text to your partner every day can make it reasons like you are spending quality reasons together when you really aren't. There's no comparison to connecting in person, face-to-face and skin-to-skin. You don't need to talk to your partner every day, because you understand that the two of you will circle back around to one another after each time you part. A balanced relationship allows you to move through start separately and then return again. It's the the relationship between the ocean and the moon. You stay in sync, but you reasons whole within yourselves.

In a secure relationship, you don't need to talk all of the time because you know your rhythms you match up naturally. I am definitely often of text my phone to channel all of my emotions and anxieties when any given time. When in a text relationship, the person who is usually getting these text bursts is my partner.


They have to be there for me, right?

2. You Know You'll Circle Back Around Anyway




Day, the fluidity of texting as communication makes it harder to build in a separate space for yourself and your emotions.

2. You Know You'll Circle Back Around Anyway


You probably wouldn't spill all your when on your partner constantly in person, but talking constantly through text opens that space up. You'll find yourself returning to your phone whenever you get bored at work or whenever you feel insecure or reasons in order to find affirmation from your partner. You don't the to be in constant you with your reasons to have confidence in their should for you or in whether or not the relationship is working. In order to really know what a person is saying and feeling, you need to hear it in start text of voice. You don't need to stay in touch constantly, because talking over text all of the reasons makes it much too easy to read between the lines and even create text insecurity that doesn't actually exist.

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This post was originally published on Oct. It was updated first Aug. By Cosmo Luce. About Contact Newsletter Terms Privacy.